Some relations are like rubber bands. You can stretch them, twist them, bend them but the two ends finally meet.
They are elastic they can stretch, so true indeed, some relations are unbound and they never break their connection. Everyone had one relation in their life that never ever can be broken...you may find that relation in form of your parents, spouse, partner...i found it in my friend. No matter what, no matter how you may want to break this relationship you may try to cut the cord that joins you. A point comes when you frustratingly fail to do so. There are people with whom you may want to keep no connection, no touch of whatsoever form, but, then again something compels you to continue this relation.
Its a predicament, in such situation, no doubt, confusion hovers all the time. The question that most of us confront in such a situation is, whether such a person really wants to stay with us? A bigger and, in my opinion, a more powerful question is whether we want to be with such a person?
Believe me this is the toughest yet the most simplest question in this world. In answer to this question, imagine the world and your life sans that person. If you can live in absence of him/her then its better to pack your bags and wear the swiftest shoes and run. However, if you cant imagine your life and the world without such a person then Stop, Wait and evaluate your feelings for such a person.
At times, our heart is more honest than our minds. At times, we think that there are so many things on this Earth to ponder upon like insurance, contracts, businesses, our own professional life. In middle of so much happening in our lives we tend to forget people. We tend to forget their importance. We tend to take them for granted. We tend to miscalculate their value, their significance in our lives. The above suggested test merely puts across the reality on our faces.
So if you have someone really special in your life whom you think you can never leave then throw aside that Ego and kill that doubt in your mind. Be with that person, love him/ her, care for him/ her and never let them go. Don't forget such relations are Rubber Bands.
You may try to stretch them and run away from them. But, the truth is, that, you will end up hurting yourself the most.
Its a predicament, in such situation, no doubt, confusion hovers all the time. The question that most of us confront in such a situation is, whether such a person really wants to stay with us? A bigger and, in my opinion, a more powerful question is whether we want to be with such a person?
Believe me this is the toughest yet the most simplest question in this world. In answer to this question, imagine the world and your life sans that person. If you can live in absence of him/her then its better to pack your bags and wear the swiftest shoes and run. However, if you cant imagine your life and the world without such a person then Stop, Wait and evaluate your feelings for such a person.
So if you have someone really special in your life whom you think you can never leave then throw aside that Ego and kill that doubt in your mind. Be with that person, love him/ her, care for him/ her and never let them go. Don't forget such relations are Rubber Bands.
You may try to stretch them and run away from them. But, the truth is, that, you will end up hurting yourself the most.
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